Whether leading a team at work, coaching a sports team, or parenting, it is important to play favourites and to not treat each person the same.
In his powerful seven-day leadership training program, Linton Sellen points out that each of us has certain aptitudes – the innate ability to do something well. Sellen also points out that those with a particular aptitude will learn a new skill in that area much faster than someone without the same aptitude.
The best way to evaluate aptitude is to train someone in the required skills and see how quickly they learn. If they don’t progress quickly, there are two possible reasons why:
With limited time and budget for training, we cannot keep working with someone indefinitely under the assumption that they will eventually “get it”. This is a bad assumption. While you waste time and money, you might also be demotivating an employee who has much to offer your organization in another area.
Good leaders will move people away from areas of low aptitude and towards areas of higher aptitude. Being “fair” as a leader means treating each person differently. If that is labelled unfair or playing favourites by some, that is OK. This is how all great leaders, coaches, and parents help each person be their best and help the team succeed overall.
IBEX Payroll extends our profound respect and immeasurable gratitude to all the ancestors and keepers of the land on whose traditional territories our work takes place. We acknowledge that we are on Treaty 1 territory, the traditional gathering place of the Anishinaabe, Cree, Oji-Cree, Dakota and Dene people and the traditional homeland of the Métis people. This land is sacred, historical, and significant.
Every time we acknowledge this truth, we have an invitation and an opportunity to reflect on the wrongs of the past, what we do in the present, and what we can do to continually honour the people whose lands and water we benefit from today.
This statement only acts as a first step in honouring the land we reside on and its peoples, and must be paired with education, understanding and informed action.